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The Power Paradox: How We Gain and Lose Influence

The Power Paradox explains that as people gain influence, they often become more generous, empathetic, and ethical, because they understand how to connect with others and lead effectively. However, if they abuse or cling to power, they can become self-centered, less empathetic, and more prone to misconduct, which eventually erodes their influence. Essentially, gaining true influence depends on treating others well and maintaining integrity, while losing influence results from selfish or abusive behavior. This cycle highlights that authentic power grows through positive relationships and diminishes when people prioritize personal gain over others.