The State of Affairs (book)

*The State of Affairs* by Esther Perel explores the complex nature of long-term romantic infidelity. It examines why people cheat, the motives behind betrayal, and its impact on relationships. The book combines research, real stories, and psychological insights to show that infidelity is often rooted in deeper issues rather than simply a lack of love or chance. Perel emphasizes understanding, honesty, and communication as ways to navigate and heal from betrayal, offering a nuanced perspective that challenges conventional views and encourages a more compassionate approach to relationship conflicts.