the other-directed personality

An other-directed personality refers to someone whose behavior, beliefs, and self-image are heavily influenced by the opinions and expectations of others. Such individuals often prioritize fitting in and gaining approval over personal preferences or internal values. They tend to be highly sensitive to social cues, frequently seeking reassurance and validation, which can lead to conforming even when it conflicts with their own desires. This trait is shaped by social and environmental factors and can affect decision-making, self-esteem, and authenticity, highlighting a strong orientation toward external validation rather than autonomous self-expression.