
The it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it concept
The phrase “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” highlights that the way a message is communicated often matters more than the content itself. Tone of voice, body language, facial expressions, and timing can influence how your message is received, adding context and emotion. For example, saying “I’m fine” with a smile versus a sigh can lead to very different impressions. Effective communication depends on both the message and the manner of delivery, ensuring that your intent is understood accurately and positively, reducing misunderstandings and strengthening relationships.