the "good enough mother" concept

The "good enough mother" concept, introduced by psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott, suggests that a mother (or primary caregiver) doesn’t need to be perfect to foster healthy development in her child. Instead, being sufficiently attentive and responsive—allowing for some imperfections—helps children feel secure and promotes resilience. This approach recognizes that idealized parenting isn't necessary; genuine, consistent care that meets a child’s needs in a realistic way is enough to support emotional growth. It alleviates pressure on parents, emphasizing that imperfections are natural and that children can thrive with “good enough” support.