The Civilizing Process (by Norbert Elias)

The Civilizing Process, by Norbert Elias, describes how Western societies have gradually developed greater self-control, manners, and social norms over centuries. As people interacted more closely and societies became more organized, behaviors shifted toward politeness, restraint, and cooperation. This evolution was driven by changing social structures, increased awareness of others’ feelings, and the desire to maintain order. Essentially, Elias explains how our modern behavior—like table manners, emotional restraint, and social etiquette—is the result of a long-term process of shaping individuals’ impulses to create more stable and respectful social life.