The Art of Loving (by Erich Fromm)

"The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm explores love as a skill that requires effort, understanding, and practice, rather than just a feeling. Fromm argues that true love involves care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge of the other person, grounded in personal growth and emotional maturity. It is a conscious act of giving and connection, not merely seeking happiness or possession. The book emphasizes that loving oneself and developing genuine self-awareness are essential foundations for meaningful, lasting relationships with others. Ultimately, Fromm presents love as an art that can be cultivated through discipline and genuine effort.