Love and Limerence (book)

"Love and Limerence" by Dorothy Tennov explores the psychological states behind romantic attraction. Love is described as a deep, enduring emotional bond that fosters care and connection. Limerence, on the other hand, is an intense, often obsessive infatuation characterized by craving reciprocation, intrusive thoughts, and emotional highs and lows. Tennov differentiates genuine love from limerence by emphasizing stability and mutual understanding versus obsession and idealization. The book provides insights into how these feelings develop, their effects on behavior, and their roles in romantic relationships, helping readers better understand their own experiences of love and infatuation.